&ldquo;And I&rsquo;ve found that it&rsquo;s better to be upfront and honest with someone &amp; be like, look I&rsquo;m not ok, I&rsquo;m a mess &amp; all over the place &amp; whatnot, and go from there than to pretend to be all whole and new and shiny.

“And I’ve found that it’s better to be upfront and honest with someone & be like, look I’m not ok, I’m a mess & all over the place & whatnot, and go from there than to pretend to be all whole and new and shiny.