I’m super paranoid when I’m talking to someone, even though they don’t give me a reason to be &amp; idk if that means I’m not ready for a relationship or if it’s okay to need someone that can reassure me

I’m super paranoid when I’m talking to someone, even though they don’t give me a reason to be & idk if that means I’m not ready for a relationship or if it’s okay to need someone that can reassure me